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Love this video and thought you might as well…beautiful!
L.

What might this have to do with corporate culture and values of successful companies? How does it relate to Effective Leadership? What about teamwork? Can you relate the definition above to feelings you’ve had for teammates on a great team or for a leader by whom you’d been inspired?

I don’t think “love” is considered a corporate word by most, but ask yourself this: What is the quality I experience in a person at work, client or teammate that I feel most warmly towards and with whom I feel most safe? Does your answer have more to do with his or her intellectual properties or with something else?

It’s been proven that productivity is higher when people like and respect each other which is the aspect of love that I think applies in the business world. Love, it is easy to argue, would be a beneficial ingredient to include in business, just because it seems right, because it is the opposite of hate, because it is positive not negative. But business will never absorb love just because it has positive connotations; it will be adopted only if it is seen to be good for business, good at improving profitability. I think that love has everything to do with business, that business is enhanced, meaning that long-term profitability is enhanced, with the introduction of love.

This clearly requires a definition of “love” in this context. By “love” I mean kindness, consideration, positive feelings, clear interest in the other’s well being, generosity of spirit, compassion and that critical ingredient, fairness.

When these qualities are introduced to any business people work harder, egos are brought under control, collaboration and cooperation blossom, productivity and creativity emerge. Long-term profitability is going to improve.

so…show me the love!
L.

…this is a blog written by The Daily Om’s creator, Marcia Kearl Johnson, and it moved me so much that I wanted to share it with you.

Today more than ever Charities need your help…but before you say, “I am almost a Charity Case Myself…How can I help?” ….read the following mind stretching idea’s that will help YOU give even more than you did before the media started to use the ‘R’ word! (You know the word the one with Recess in it!).

1. What if you exchange your service for a tax receipt…. so, if you have book keeping or accounting skills. Or if you have a legal background… or if you have mad chef skills…. Speak with the charity to see is they would be willing to exchange your service for a little piece of paper that saves you money in tax season.

2. Christmas Jars… (my family and I read a book several years ago by that name.) All year long, we through our change into a jar… then in December, we pick a person or family to give the jar to. We don’t tell them why or who we are…we simply put the jar on the step and run away.

3. Recycle … go through your closets, and shelves..tidy up the shed and the garage… and take that stuff into a shelter or Goodwill or Salvation Army. You’ll help families in need and in some cases..you will get a tax receipt ….or store credit that you can hand to the next person walking in the door!

4. Give Flowers… when we lived in the city, on our trips to Costco, I would buy a bouquet of roses. (crazy inexpensive) then on the way home we would give half of them away. Several times, we would stop at the local coffee shop and my children would walk up to a sweet older woman ..hand her the roses and say something like, “ the universe wanted you to have a special gift today..and here they are.” Hand her the flowers and walk away. She would either have tears streaming down her cheeks or a shocked look on her face…but it didn’t matter. Then the rest of the way home, my kids and I would make up stories about how the rest of the ladies day would go. (This is something that the giver gets so much more out of…than the receiver…try it to see what I mean)

5. Charity Credit Cards… did you know that some credit cards give a small percentage of the money that you spend to charities… for example the Bank of America’s World WildLife Fund Visa gives that charity $100 when you sign up plus .$0.25 for every $100 that you spend. If you are using plastic anyways… might as well give it to a good cause.

6. Speaking of Plastic… why not donate some Air Miles to a charity like Ronald McDonald house so that families can fly to be together with their children when they are having treatments.

7. If YOU work for a large corporation, they may already have a matching charity gift program in place…that way for every dollar that you give.. your place of employment will double the donation. It is worth looking into or encouraging your employer to start.

8. What about sponsoring a child or a family as a group? Have several friends or co-workers come together to sponsor a child… that way people get help..and you don’t have to do it alone. (A World Vision Sponsor is tripling any donation given to World Vision in the month of December.)

9. Most of the time, we really don’t need any more things to add to our already too big “Stuff” collection …so why not ask that the givers on your list..donate to your favorite charity instead of allowing your “Stuff” to take over your space.

10. If you are a business owner and have excess inventory… why not donate it? For examples, if you have a shoe store..donate last year’s shoes to the sports team at school. If you have a jersey store..why not do the same thing? Schools need things like art supplies, musical instruments ..music, craft supplies, games, sports equipment and soo much more. {Need a school / organization to donate to? Here is my favorite.. Team Genesis http://www.teamgenesis.org/ expanding on the core methods of mentoring athletes, academic success, and the overall attainment of personal goals… inspiring the students of today to be the Leaders of tomorrow. }

11. Bikes that your children have out grown…give them to a family that may not be able to afford one for their children. (write a note on it and leave it on their step.)

12. Lots of companies honor their employees that volunteer… some give awards that include a cash gift to the winners charity. If you have a criminal records check done.. you can volunteer as a coach or assistant in everything from cheerleader to basketball.

13. Turn your Christmas party into a fundraiser or food drive…

14. Encourage company management to sponsor the Operation Red-nose campaign …(or whatever you call it in your town.) Local University or College supply’s designated drivers to bring home party goers and their cars…so they don’t drink and drive. It is all donation ‘s to support the athletic department.

15. Christmas Baking… if you are doing it anyways..why not make double the batch and drop it off with a family that may not have the time or resources to bake their own.

16. Coats… if you have winter clothing or blankets that are gently used, drop them off at the shelter to keep other people warm.

17. Gift Books to the school Library… You can add a tag that say’s this book was donated by “insert child’s name and year.” Then as your kids grow, they can she how many children get to check out the book that they donated.

18. Babysit… for a neighbor (unless you live in the UK where it is not legal,) so that they can finish up their shopping without packing the kids to the mall.

19. Helping Hands … Carl Van Haght and some other Earth Angels of HelloHello.net is mentoring people with their ‘online’ skills to help give a hand up rather than a hand out. HelloHello.Net is: A Social Networking Portal where you can upload your profile, search for friends, become friends, upload pictures and videos, chat, blog, email, use Twitter & Facebook on the site, check profiles, update your online status, start groups, post a poll, add an event, and much, much more. Compared to all other similar concepts that make billions of dollars per portal per year and don’t share this revenue with their members, HelloHello.Net pays 60% of all income from different advertising sources on HelloHello.Net back to all members. HelloHello.Net also has a strong mission regarding charity and fundraising that is why helping hands is so successful! 60% of all income from advertising and other ventures will be paid back to the members. 38% of all income will go to HelloHello.Net (administration). 2% will be given to well established and reputable charity organizations. 50 cents will go to charity each time a transaction is made via PinPay (Merchant). Check out http://bit.ly/2ceZFs to Social Network for $$$’s for Charity and YOU!

20. Never underestimate the gift of a smile… holding a door open, or helping someone carry some packages.

21. Clean your child’s room (if you don’t normally do it.)

23. Visit people in an old folk’s home. Adopt a grandparent!

24. Give as you earn Payroll… giving is a simple, tax-efficient way of donating through your salary. Because your donation is taken from your salary before tax is deducted, it costs you less you get the tax credits.

25. Give More...Get More! Want your donation dollars to have the greatest impact possible? Make your contributions to GlobalGiving projects around the globe go further with $250,000 of available matching funds! http://www.globalgiving.org/

26. Give the world & YOUrself the Gift of Peace… by making a conscious choice to Stand for Peace. Download your own unique Peace Certificate at http://www.peaceinourlifetime.org/ all you do is add your name and country…no email… and you can post your own peace certificate proudly anywhere you choose.

So there YOU have it… a little list of how YOU can really make a great impact no matter what your resources look like. Plus…as an added bonus… every time YOU decide to make a difference for someone else, YOU are making a deposit into your Karmic Bank Account… and it never hurts to have some Karmic Cash laying around for the times that you need it. Remember that “Givers, Gain!” No matter how small the amount may be… every little bit of service that you offer, makes a difference for all parties involved. The cool thing about the list above…is that it really doesn’t matter what time of year it is… YOU can still be of service… be charitable with your time, skills, love, and friendship. I promise you that when your heart is in the right place… you are aligning yourself in the flow of abundance. Allow it to flow to you and through you, to create a cycle of giving and receiving.

Step into action this holiday season…you’ll be glad you did!

Time to get off the Hamster Wheel…are you ready? If I have learned one thing over the past year, it’s to not stay frozen like a deer in the headlights, it’s times to take ACTION.

• Be Ambitious
Be passionate about your goals and success would follow. Be prepared to work hard and remain committed at every step. Aligning your passion with goals makes the journey much more enjoyable. Being ambitious fills you with unwavering enthusiasm that is much needed to overcome a bad phase in the journey.

• Invest in Yourself
Keep learning new things every year. While experience is a very good teacher, one should also makes an extra effort to increase their scope and skill set. Learning new and diverse things never harms you because everything in this world holds some basic connection with other. Learning is an excellent way to keep your mind sharp and focused!

• Healthy Lifestyle
A healthy body holds an underlying secret of success and happiness. Never ignore your health and always strive for a healthy lifestyle.

• Be Responsible
You need to be responsible towards you family, society and environment. A careless attitude won’t take you far. There are people who are part of your journey to success and you should give them utmost importance. One has never become successful in life if any part of his responsibilities has ever failed. Make partners in success, derive strength from them.

• Learn From Failures
First of all, THERE ARE NO FAILURES!!…Truth: Failure = Feedback, period. Always do an introspection to get an unbiased view of what has happened and what can be done in future. Once you acknowledge the feedback and prepare for next step, the final destination inches closer to you.

• Patience is the Key
The concept of overnight wonder is a myth. It takes a lot of hard work to achieve your goals and while the journey can be long and tiring, one should be patient about it. Success may eventually come but it tends to follow those that have kept the courage and believed in themselves.

• Never Give Up
This essentially is tied up with patience but with packed with abilities to rise up with every fall. Always give yourself another chance and believe in yourself. Remember, whenever you come up short, it is not about you personally… it’s your approach or idea. Try or take up the next idea and keep moving.

• Remain Positive
Nothing above will hold true if you don’t remain positive. Optimism in itself holds a magic that can help you sail through biggest difficulties of life. Being positive about ourselves, our lives, and our goals brings in us an extra power. It keeps us enthusiastic and committed to our goals. Never ever give space to negative thoughts in your mind.

I actually wear a rubber band around my wrist and snap it when my mind goes to the negative. Doesn’t happen much anymore!

• Celebrate Success
It is important to celebrate success no matter it is big or small. Get success, celebrate it, and prepare for next journey. The breaks are important to keep you fresh and energetic for next day. Keep a mark of things in your journey and get an inspiration from it. It’s okay to be successful!

Don’t let yourself get slack with the holidays nearing…be prepared for 2010 by starting now…it’s not too late!

How many of you out there feel that your life is in balance? My guess is there’s not many, including yours truly, especially as of late.

I’m curious if you working so hard that you forget or blow off the options you have to connect with yourself, family and others to be present and in the moment? I’ve created a list that starting tomorrow I’m going to bring into my life…it’s time!

Do any of the following examples or suggestions resonate for you? If not what is your list? CREATE YOUR OWN! Be completely honest…not with me… with you!

• Set Goals for Health – buy a Pilates ball. I know it’s time for me to go buy new one to replace the one that deflated 2 weeks ago! I used it EVERY day and now my core and back are missing the darn thing. I also intend to up my walking time and eat more veggies.

• Connect – I have a list of 250 people in my network. I’m calling everyone on that list, about 2-4 per day and just check in to see what needs they have, and what I might be able to do for them. No hidden agenda, just create value.

• Meditate – twice a day to bring clarity, peace and tranquility to my life.

• De- Clutter – is a must allowing abundance to come in. Feung Shui thing!

• Family Game Night – Time to to play…Back away from the computer!

• Appreciate – Be thankful for the blessings in your life… everyday.

• Get Outside Yourself – Contribute to those in need.

• Hum, Sing or Play an Instrument – I’ve decided that whistling while I’m hiking works best for me!

• Sleep…Get a full 7 hours in every night.

What’s your list look like? Why wait for New Years 2010…start now.

Tonight at my local grocery store I received my first big whiff of a real Christmas tree. WAM!…my memories of Christmases past came flooding back, like a dam that burst it’s seams. I smiled and continued on my quest.

I have to admit, many times I take my sense of smell for granted. Next is my sense of taste, hearing, seeing and touch…why? Why have these precious gifts gone by the wayside? For me it’s about lack of focus, by not being in the moment.

Because of this awareness, I now have an intention. This holiday season I choose to tap into all of my senses…all of them and really notice the experience without judgment. Want to join me? Email me with what you are doing along these line and let me have your feedback.

Long day…even longer tomorrow.
See you then,
L.

After 90 days…I’ve decided to take a day of rest !

Tomorrow I would invite you to look at life differently. Step outside your comfort zone and…challenge yourself, love yourself, take care of yourself, discover yourself and most of all…. be your authentic self. What did you notice?

See you tomorrow!
L.

Today is technically the last day of the Quattro 90 day challenge and for me I’m continuing on…why?

I have learned so much by being a part of this challenge. I started out feeling nervous, excited, curious, vulnerable and a bit wary how this was going to unfold.

As it turned out my nerves turned into self-confidence, my excitement turned into delight (okay, occasionally I was really tired but I blogged anyway!), my curiosity turned into authenticity, and my vulnerability blossomed into becoming a writer I never knew I could be. What I put out there was who I am. My intention? …to give to others inspiration, laughter, awareness, creativity, reflection, accountability and a sense of belonging. “Keeping it real”.

I’m not the same person I was a year ago, nor am I the same person I was 90 days ago when I started this challenge. I have grown, and continue to do so because I was challenged, held accountable and driven. This was not just by my mentors, but more importantly by me. I believe how you do one thing, is how you do everything.

I want to thank Cheri, Kecia, Cole and the executive staff at Quattro for putting this challenge on. Cory Jim for his creative juices in thinking this whole thing up..(You rock!) and everyone who committed themselves to the challenge. I read some amazing posts and I invite all of you to check out the others who went on this journey as well…click here.

Thank you all for your support, words of encouragement and smiles. I promise to keep the posts coming!
In gratitude,
L.

The Law of Circulation states that all things in the Universe are always flowing in circulation, but at an ever expanding rate. What you give to one person, you will receive from a different source. So you don’t have to give with the expectation of receiving back from the same person you give to, but knowing that it will definitely come back to you multiplied from other sources. It works according to the Law of Cause and Effect where the universe always mirrors back to you whatever you do.

What have you given today? What have you received from the experiences? What is staring back to you in your mirror?

Today I gave: Love, support, compassion, empathy, a smile, praise, accountability, passion, trust, focus, appreciation, intention, authenticity, expansion and… gratitude.

What I received: Love, support, compassion, empathy, a smile, praise, accountability, passion, trust, focus, appreciation, intention, authenticity, expansion, and…
beauty, confidence, understanding, touch, memories, a listening ear, fortitude, courage, depth, awareness, joy, connection, consideration, harmony, freedom, safety, hope, meaning, discovery, spontaneity, consistency, growth, presence, purpose, fun and play and gratitude

I certainly received more than I gave today.

Staring back at me in the mirror? …a huge smile, knowing I can choose to do this every day and the infinite possibilities that will unfold.